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What is the quality that you value the most in your partner and love the most?
What is the quality that you value the most in your partner and love the most?
Read lessI have developed romantic feelings for a man who happens to be married. I discovered his marital status only recently and he claims to be unhappy in his marriage, with plans to divorce in the near future. What course of ...Read more
I have developed romantic feelings for a man who happens to be married. I discovered his marital status only recently and he claims to be unhappy in his marriage, with plans to divorce in the near future. What course of action should I take?
Read lessI’m feeling quite lost and was hoping for some guidance from GAG. Recently, my fiancé handed me his phone to look at something on Instagram and left me with it to review some wedding things. While browsing, I came across ...Read more
I’m feeling quite lost and was hoping for some guidance from GAG. Recently, my fiancé handed me his phone to look at something on Instagram and left me with it to review some wedding things. While browsing, I came across his ex-girlfriend’s profile, whose profile picture was a selfie with nothing covered except for her nipples. I clicked on her profile and discovered that he had started dating her a week after she turned 18, and he was 30 at the time. She was still a high school student, and he had even attended her prom. Although her parents had met him and consented to the relationship, I couldn’t help but feel concerned about the significant age difference and the fact that he proposed to her when she was only 20.
This discovery has made me worried about my own relationship with him, especially since I make significantly more money than him and am also much younger than him. I’m worried that he might be with me only for my looks or money, and I’m even considering getting a prenuptial agreement to protect myself in case of a divorce. I’m also concerned that he might trade me in for a younger, hotter model after we have kids.
Additionally, I went through his chats with other females and found that before we met, he had slept with many women, some of whom I know personally. He even convinced one woman to leave her husband and then slept with her two weeks later. While there is nothing explicitly sexual in his current conversations with these women, he still maintains casual friendships with them, which raises some red flags for me. I love my fiancé, but all of this has me feeling extremely nervous and unsure about our future together. However, I can see some differences between our conversations and his conversations with his ex-girlfriend, which is giving me a glimmer of hope.
Read lessI am here to assist you with your situation. Your fiancé’s past relationship with his ex-girlfriend, who was 18 when they began dating and 30 at the time, raises some concerns for you. It is understandable that you would want to know more about his past, but it is not healthy to go through his chatsRead more
I am here to assist you with your situation. Your fiancé’s past relationship with his ex-girlfriend, who was 18 when they began dating and 30 at the time, raises some concerns for you. It is understandable that you would want to know more about his past, but it is not healthy to go through his chats with females. This behavior may cause him to feel violated and hurt if he finds out.
Regarding your concerns about your fiancé being with you for your looks or money, it is possible that he may be attracted to you for those reasons. However, it is also possible that he is with you for other reasons, such as your personality, intelligence, and compatibility. It is up to you to decide if you want a prenuptial agreement or not, but it is important to communicate with your fiancé about your concerns and discuss any potential issues that may arise in the future.
As for the red flags you have identified, it is concerning that your fiancé had casual sexual relationships with multiple women before you met. It may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with him about his past behavior and how it makes you feel. You can express your concerns without accusing or attacking him, and try to work together to come up with a solution that works for both of you.
It is important to remember that every relationship is unique, and it is up to you to decide what is acceptable behavior for your partner. It may be helpful to seek the advice of a therapist or counselor to help you navigate your feelings and concerns about your relationship.
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Let me explain to you what's going to happen. The man you are involved with will not leave his wife. Instead, he will continue to maintain this relationship for as long as you believe his story that he is unhappy and working on getting a divorce. However, when you begin to question why he hasn't filRead more
Let me explain to you what’s going to happen. The man you are involved with will not leave his wife. Instead, he will continue to maintain this relationship for as long as you believe his story that he is unhappy and working on getting a divorce. However, when you begin to question why he hasn’t filed for divorce yet, he will come up with excuses like legal issues or his wife not being cooperative. As time goes on, his stories will become more elaborate, and he will use the need for discretion to avoid doing anything for you. When you pressure him to get a divorce, he will end things with you because he wants to remain married but also have affairs. He pretended to be single when you met him, and his excuse of being unhappy in his marriage and trying to get a divorce is a tired one that has been used by many two-timing married men. There is no need for him to have trouble getting divorced, and I am certain that if he were honest with his wife about his relationship with you, he would be divorced by now. He is simply using the excuse of getting a divorce to cover up his desire for an affair.
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