As a 29-year-old Indian woman with two children, I am considering a divorce from my husband and wondering about my future prospects with men. I am uncertain how long I will remain uninterested in dating, and I am curious if ...Read more
As a 29-year-old Indian woman with two children, I am considering a divorce from my husband and wondering about my future prospects with men. I am uncertain how long I will remain uninterested in dating, and I am curious if this will impact my ability to find a new partner.
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If you're considering divorce but haven't shared the reason why, please take a moment to read this. As someone who has recently gone through a divorce in India, I understand how difficult and lonely life can be post-divorce. While it's possible to move past this phase, it takes time and effort. BefoRead more
If you’re considering divorce but haven’t shared the reason why, please take a moment to read this. As someone who has recently gone through a divorce in India, I understand how difficult and lonely life can be post-divorce. While it’s possible to move past this phase, it takes time and effort. Before choosing divorce, it’s important to try to work on your current marriage. Only consider divorce for reasons such as physical abuse, infidelity, or addiction. If there are other reasons, it’s best for both of you to work on them before making a final decision.
Before taking any action, take some time to think things over. Avoid making decisions when you’re sad or angry. Try to understand your partner’s perspective and differentiate between emotions and logic during conflicts. It’s also recommended to seek professional help, such as counseling or therapy, to gain a third-party perspective. Be open-minded and non-judgmental when listening to feedback. If there’s a chance to work things out with your partner, take it.
If none of these options work, divorce may be the best decision. However, before making a final decision, reflect on the good times you’ve shared together. Is it worth losing the relationship that has brought you so much joy and happiness? If not, try to find the root cause and work together to address it. Consider taking a trip together to reconnect and strengthen your bond.
Please note that I have not yet addressed the aspect of children in this situation.
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