पुरुष पैसे से ज्यादा महिलाओं के पीछे क्यों हैं?
पुरुष पैसे से ज्यादा महिलाओं के पीछे क्यों हैं?
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पुरुष पैसे से ज्यादा महिलाओं के पीछे क्यों हैं?
पुरुष पैसे से ज्यादा महिलाओं के पीछे क्यों हैं?
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Read lessAs a 29-year-old Indian woman with two children, I am considering a divorce from my husband and wondering about my future prospects with men. I am uncertain how long I will remain uninterested in dating, and I am curious if ...Read more
As a 29-year-old Indian woman with two children, I am considering a divorce from my husband and wondering about my future prospects with men. I am uncertain how long I will remain uninterested in dating, and I am curious if this will impact my ability to find a new partner.
Read lessIf you're considering divorce but haven't shared the reason why, please take a moment to read this. As someone who has recently gone through a divorce in India, I understand how difficult and lonely life can be post-divorce. While it's possible to move past this phase, it takes time and effort. BefoRead more
If you’re considering divorce but haven’t shared the reason why, please take a moment to read this. As someone who has recently gone through a divorce in India, I understand how difficult and lonely life can be post-divorce. While it’s possible to move past this phase, it takes time and effort. Before choosing divorce, it’s important to try to work on your current marriage. Only consider divorce for reasons such as physical abuse, infidelity, or addiction. If there are other reasons, it’s best for both of you to work on them before making a final decision.
Before taking any action, take some time to think things over. Avoid making decisions when you’re sad or angry. Try to understand your partner’s perspective and differentiate between emotions and logic during conflicts. It’s also recommended to seek professional help, such as counseling or therapy, to gain a third-party perspective. Be open-minded and non-judgmental when listening to feedback. If there’s a chance to work things out with your partner, take it.
If none of these options work, divorce may be the best decision. However, before making a final decision, reflect on the good times you’ve shared together. Is it worth losing the relationship that has brought you so much joy and happiness? If not, try to find the root cause and work together to address it. Consider taking a trip together to reconnect and strengthen your bond.
Please note that I have not yet addressed the aspect of children in this situation.
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In Mumbai, my husband abandoned our family consisting of myself and our two children. He relocated to Chennai where he currently lives with his sister’s family and their mother. In response, I sent him a notice for separation and child ...Read more
In Mumbai, my husband abandoned our family consisting of myself and our two children. He relocated to Chennai where he currently lives with his sister’s family and their mother. In response, I sent him a notice for separation and child maintenance. However, my mother-in-law filed a false FIR claiming my husband was missing, to evade any responsibility. Although he is not missing, Indian law does not take any action against a missing person until seven years have passed. Despite my efforts to seek help from helplines and officials through various email addresses, I have been unsuccessful in resolving the issue. Can someone please provide me with the email address of the Delhi Police Department that deals with women’s issues? Furthermore, what actions does the Indian police take against individuals who file false FIRs and misuse the law? I would appreciate it if someone could guide me on whom to approach to address this situation and how to make my husband respond to the notice and cooperate regarding the children’s maintenance.
Read lessI'm sorry to hear about your situation. I cannot provide legal advice or specific contact information for police departments. However, I can give you some general guidance that may help. Regarding the false FIR filed by your mother-in-law, you can file a counter-complaint against her. The procedureRead more
I’m sorry to hear about your situation. I cannot provide legal advice or specific contact information for police departments. However, I can give you some general guidance that may help.
Regarding the false FIR filed by your mother-in-law, you can file a counter-complaint against her. The procedure for this may vary depending on the state in which you reside. You may want to consult with a lawyer to guide you through this process.
In terms of making your husband respond to the notice for separation and maintenance, you may need to hire a lawyer who can send him a legal notice on your behalf. If he still does not respond, you can file a case in court to seek maintenance for yourself and your children. A lawyer can help you with this as well.
To find the contact information for the police department in Tamil Nadu that handles issues faced by women, you can try searching online or reaching out to local women’s organizations. They may be able to provide you with the relevant contact information or refer you to someone who can help.
Overall, it’s important to seek legal advice and assistance to navigate this situation effectively.
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