I have developed romantic feelings for a man who happens to be married. I discovered his marital status only recently and he claims to be unhappy in his marriage, with plans to divorce in the near future. What course of ...Read more
I have developed romantic feelings for a man who happens to be married. I discovered his marital status only recently and he claims to be unhappy in his marriage, with plans to divorce in the near future. What course of action should I take?
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Let me explain to you what's going to happen. The man you are involved with will not leave his wife. Instead, he will continue to maintain this relationship for as long as you believe his story that he is unhappy and working on getting a divorce. However, when you begin to question why he hasn't filRead more
Let me explain to you what’s going to happen. The man you are involved with will not leave his wife. Instead, he will continue to maintain this relationship for as long as you believe his story that he is unhappy and working on getting a divorce. However, when you begin to question why he hasn’t filed for divorce yet, he will come up with excuses like legal issues or his wife not being cooperative. As time goes on, his stories will become more elaborate, and he will use the need for discretion to avoid doing anything for you. When you pressure him to get a divorce, he will end things with you because he wants to remain married but also have affairs. He pretended to be single when you met him, and his excuse of being unhappy in his marriage and trying to get a divorce is a tired one that has been used by many two-timing married men. There is no need for him to have trouble getting divorced, and I am certain that if he were honest with his wife about his relationship with you, he would be divorced by now. He is simply using the excuse of getting a divorce to cover up his desire for an affair.
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