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पुरुष पैसे से ज्यादा महिलाओं के पीछे क्यों हैं?
औरत एक आदमी के लिए वही है जो नशा एक नशेड़ी के लिए। जैसे कोई नशा छोड़ना मुश्किल है, वैसे ही कोई औरत से दूर रहना मुश्किल है। इसका कोई मुकाबला नहीं है। जब किसी मर्द को औरत की ज़रूरत होती है, तो वह सारे समाजिक और पारिवारिक मर्यादाओं को भूल जाता है। उसके शरीर में ऐसे परिवर्तन होते हैं, जिन पर उसका काबू नहRead more
औरत एक आदमी के लिए वही है जो नशा एक नशेड़ी के लिए। जैसे कोई नशा छोड़ना मुश्किल है, वैसे ही कोई औरत से दूर रहना मुश्किल है। इसका कोई मुकाबला नहीं है। जब किसी मर्द को औरत की ज़रूरत होती है, तो वह सारे समाजिक और पारिवारिक मर्यादाओं को भूल जाता है। उसके शरीर में ऐसे परिवर्तन होते हैं, जिन पर उसका काबू नहीं होता है। कितने ही सख्त कानून हों, पर उस समय मर्द मौत का ख़तरा भी नहीं सोचता है। पैसे कमाने के लिए, मनुष्य को हार्मोन्स का प्रभाव नहीं पड़ता है। पैसे कमाने में कुछ ख़ामियाँ होने पर, मनुष्य पैसे कमाने का सपना छोड़ सकता है, क्योंकि पैसे कमाने में मेहनत करनी पड़ती है, पर पैसे कमाने से ख़ुशी मिलना ज़रूरी नहीं होती है। महिला के सिवाय, समाज में साधारण ज़िन्दगी जीने वाले मुश्किल से मिलेंगे । मुझे तो योगी और संन्यासी भी औरत के प्यार में फँसे हुए दिखे हैं।
See lessI am considering a divorce from my husband and wondering about my future prospects with men
If you're considering divorce but haven't shared the reason why, please take a moment to read this. As someone who has recently gone through a divorce in India, I understand how difficult and lonely life can be post-divorce. While it's possible to move past this phase, it takes time and effort. BefoRead more
If you’re considering divorce but haven’t shared the reason why, please take a moment to read this. As someone who has recently gone through a divorce in India, I understand how difficult and lonely life can be post-divorce. While it’s possible to move past this phase, it takes time and effort. Before choosing divorce, it’s important to try to work on your current marriage. Only consider divorce for reasons such as physical abuse, infidelity, or addiction. If there are other reasons, it’s best for both of you to work on them before making a final decision.
Before taking any action, take some time to think things over. Avoid making decisions when you’re sad or angry. Try to understand your partner’s perspective and differentiate between emotions and logic during conflicts. It’s also recommended to seek professional help, such as counseling or therapy, to gain a third-party perspective. Be open-minded and non-judgmental when listening to feedback. If there’s a chance to work things out with your partner, take it.
If none of these options work, divorce may be the best decision. However, before making a final decision, reflect on the good times you’ve shared together. Is it worth losing the relationship that has brought you so much joy and happiness? If not, try to find the root cause and work together to address it. Consider taking a trip together to reconnect and strengthen your bond.
Please note that I have not yet addressed the aspect of children in this situation.
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My husband abandoned our family consisting of myself and our two children
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I cannot provide legal advice or specific contact information for police departments. However, I can give you some general guidance that may help. Regarding the false FIR filed by your mother-in-law, you can file a counter-complaint against her. The procedureRead more
I’m sorry to hear about your situation. I cannot provide legal advice or specific contact information for police departments. However, I can give you some general guidance that may help.
Regarding the false FIR filed by your mother-in-law, you can file a counter-complaint against her. The procedure for this may vary depending on the state in which you reside. You may want to consult with a lawyer to guide you through this process.
In terms of making your husband respond to the notice for separation and maintenance, you may need to hire a lawyer who can send him a legal notice on your behalf. If he still does not respond, you can file a case in court to seek maintenance for yourself and your children. A lawyer can help you with this as well.
To find the contact information for the police department in Tamil Nadu that handles issues faced by women, you can try searching online or reaching out to local women’s organizations. They may be able to provide you with the relevant contact information or refer you to someone who can help.
Overall, it’s important to seek legal advice and assistance to navigate this situation effectively.
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यह अच्छी बात है कि आप अपने साथी के वित्तीय स्थिति के बारे में चिंतित हो रहे हैं और उनसे खुली बातचीत करना चाहते हैं। उसकी माँ द्वारा दी गई सलाह अच्छी है कि उन्हें अपने खर्चों को नियंत्रित करने और बचत करने की आवश्यकता हो सकती है। आप अपने साथी के साथ उनके वित्तीय स्थिति के बारे में खुलकर बातचीत कर सकतेRead more
यह अच्छी बात है कि आप अपने साथी के वित्तीय स्थिति के बारे में चिंतित हो रहे हैं और उनसे खुली बातचीत करना चाहते हैं। उसकी माँ द्वारा दी गई सलाह अच्छी है कि उन्हें अपने खर्चों को नियंत्रित करने और बचत करने की आवश्यकता हो सकती है।
आप अपने साथी के साथ उनके वित्तीय स्थिति के बारे में खुलकर बातचीत कर सकते हैं और उनसे उनके खर्चों और बचत की योजना के बारे में पूछ सकते हैं। आप उनसे उनके पिछले साल के कमाई और वर्तमान आय के बारे में भी पूछ सकते हैं और उन्हें उनकी वित्तीय स्थिति के बारे में जानने के लिए प्रोत्साहित कर सकते हैं।
आपके साथी के उलझन के साथ निपटने के लिए आप उन्हें वित्तीय प्रबंधन के बारे में बेहतर सलाह देने के लिए अपने बैंक के सलाहकार से मिल सकते हैं या फिर उन्हें वित्तीय सलाह देने वाले किसी अन्य विशेषज्ञ की सलाह लेने के लिए प्रोत्साहित कर सकते हैं
See lessWhat should we do to be good parents?
Being a good parent is a complex and ongoing process that requires constant learning, adaptation, and personal growth. Here are some general tips that may help you in your parenting journey: Love and respect your child unconditionally: Show your child that you love and respect them for who they are,Read more
Being a good parent is a complex and ongoing process that requires constant learning, adaptation, and personal growth. Here are some general tips that may help you in your parenting journey:
Remember, every child is different, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting. Be patient, flexible, and willing to learn from your mistakes. Seek out resources and support when needed, and don’t be afraid to ask for help.
See lessWhat's the best way to deal with the situation when my child is being bullied?
As a parent, it is your duty to take action when your worst fears materialize and your child is being bullied. It is important to instill in your children the values of self-respect and standing up for themselves and to never allow anyone to make them feel unworthy. However, even speaking to schoolRead more
As a parent, it is your duty to take action when your worst fears materialize and your child is being bullied. It is important to instill in your children the values of self-respect and standing up for themselves and to never allow anyone to make them feel unworthy. However, even speaking to school administrators, the bully’s parents or the bully themselves may not always resolve the situation. Your most effective course of action is to provide your children with your unwavering support and teach them how to assert themselves. While physical violence is never acceptable, it may be necessary for your child to defend themselves in situations where they are physically threatened.
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How do I explain to him what he did was wrong?
Before approaching the conversation with your son, it's important to take a step back and examine the situation objectively. It's understandable to feel concerned or upset about your son sleeping over at a house with three other girls, but it's also important to approach the situation without jumpinRead more
Before approaching the conversation with your son, it’s important to take a step back and examine the situation objectively. It’s understandable to feel concerned or upset about your son sleeping over at a house with three other girls, but it’s also important to approach the situation without jumping to conclusions or making assumptions.
Here are some steps you can take to approach the conversation with your son:
Remember to approach the conversation with empathy and understanding, and be open to listening to your son’s perspective as well. The goal is to help your son understand the importance of respecting boundaries and making responsible decisions, not to shame or punish him.
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